Wednesday, March 18, 2009

Festivals & Tantrums can be avoided due.

Over the years thousands of families with parents regularly talk to their trip to Disney World and return home early through frustrations and disappointments. The behavior of children. Children tend to play the emotion that the Tantrums. Disney sound end of a reality than you might think more general.

After all, how many days you can eat and tantrums? How many days of negotiations and still entertain you wear strange Fights? And what is bad ... you do not feel in many situations like this.

However, this can not happen. The attention for this mistake and how angry the trip to Disney World.

Error 1: You work hard to make them happy.

Now I know that sounds strange. But I also believe that children have a chance of gold. I tantrums. "D Like Meltdown. If you do not want the whining and complaining.

This is the secret: The responsibility is to create happiness. None of your business practices to ensure their happiness. They have their part to help!

What can you do to create an excellent opportunity to experience full of laughs and fun and learn how to deal with long queues of a different opinion with his brother and the need of the sun before him. be burned dead.

The tragedy that now I have time. Could not be saved. In fact, they should learn from that. This is an important lesson in life.

Error 2: Not clear expectations of behavior.

Disney World well before the children need to understand what their expectations for work in the community. Let them know what is acceptable public behavior. "And they enjoy the park for recreation and walks Disney World that their behavior is consistent with the accepted behavior .."

It is important to clearly define "you" (because everyone knows what is acceptable and not acceptable.) So the argument or discussion on ... especially in combination or seductive temptation arrogance.

This may be different for the family and so it is important to describe children. But that is not enough! Yes, we need to make sure you know the error number three.

Error number 3: Try to teach the limits of behavior and not with the results.

This is a mistake for us all. Start to see our children move to the inappropriate behavior or who may be out of control and began to insult or train or to warn. One day in May, when more to maintain. If you have children who are difficult and hard, you know that this situation may result in a rapid spiral out.

How can I avoid this chaos, is not focused on the words. What about the expectations that children know they lack some limited results.

For example, if you describe this form of staff Hitting or pushing means is not negotiable following: "You are so for a while." At the table five minutes before making any calmly. Mother, father ... I honor you. You must know the line. So we have to teach it. He threatened her.

... And what you need.

by Randy Cale

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